Why mourn something you never wanted? This simplistic view ignores the fact that childbearing and fertility is deeply woven into the idea of what it means to be feminine.
One of the things I enjoy about my marriage is working on joint projects. Whether it is building a budget together, building a website together, or even doing chores, it's more fun to do it together. So when I decided that I wanted to learn Spanish, I was excited when the hubby agreed to learn it with me.
You've had this great friendship. You hang out together, commiserate together, and call each other up when you need advice or a shoulder to cry on. Then one day she comes to you with a piece of exciting news, she's pregnant. So you paste a smile on your face and try to ignore that inner cry of anguish: "Oh shit, there goes another one."
One of the things I enjoy about my marriage is working on joint projects. Whether it is building a budget together, building a website together, or even doing chores, it's more fun to do it together. So when I decided that I wanted to learn Spanish, I was excited when the hubby agreed to learn it with me.
Does this sound familiar? You come home from work, eat some dinner, and you don't have much energy so you put on the TV. A few hours later you're feeling about as tired as you were when you started, and then it's off to bed to get some sleep for the next round.
Books are a source of adventure, escape, and excitement. This is doubly true when we're following the exploits of our favorite female crime solvers. Many of them have traded in the "traditional" choices of husbands and kids in exchange for a good set of lock picks and the dogged pursuit of justice. What more could you ask for?
Dinner and a Movie has always been a traditional date night activity. While we love to go out, sometimes you look at the cost of a movie and what is playing, and it seems a bit ridiculous. Hence our little spin on the concept...
Has this ever happened to you? You go out with your spouse or friends for a nice meal, but you find that kids in the restaurant are a distraction. In this article you'll learn five quick tips for avoiding...
Here in Seattle, it's often gray and rainy, but that doesn't stop us from enjoying a scenic drive from time to time. A drive can be relaxing, and a nice way to break out of your rut to see new landscapes that are not too far...
Being childfree is mostly about living a joyful life, but it's also about avoiding some of the risks of parenthood.
You've had this great friendship. You hang out together, commiserate together, and call each other up when you need advice or a shoulder to cry on. Then one day she comes to you with a piece of exciting news, she's pregnant. So you paste a smile on your face and try to ignore that inner cry of anguish: "Oh shit, there goes another one."
Childfree dating brings some unique challenges. But are you going about it the right way? Check out the lastest thinking on childfree dating, along with some tips...
For those of us who are child free, kids can be a bit of a mystery. We're not sure how to relate to them, and interactions may feel stilted or awkward. This doesn't mean we don't care for the kids in our families, so here are some tips for how to be a good Aunt or Uncle.
Are childfree marriages happier than traditional marriages with children? Are childless couples more likely to stay together? The answers may surprise you...
Do you plan to be financially independent? Would you like to exit the "rat race" while you still have pep in your step? Learn about three excellent online communities that can help you get there.
Charitable giving is important. We want to make a difference in the world, and we want to give back. How can we ensure that our giving lines up with our values? Let's walk through some questions in order to put a giving strategy together.
We love to go on vacation. About ten years ago we decided that we wanted to take several small vacations annually, and one bigger vacation every 2-3 years. Why? We have a great time exploring new places and spending uninterrupted time together. The New York Times has reported that....
When it comes to financial security, many child free couples have an advantage. When you're not paying to raise kids, you can funnel those resources into other areas. For some this means saving for an early retirement...
If you suddenly lost your job, would you be able to pay your bills? If your car died, would you be able to replace it? For many people who live paycheck to paycheck, the answer to these questions is a resounding no. When you ...
What's the next best thing to an international adventure? Planning one! What the next best thing to that? A great travel movie.
Once you begin to see the world, there is this kind of tug you begin to feel just behind your breastbone. It says "go! explore!" And you find that no matter how many trips you plan, it never feels quite like enough. So we began to ask ourselves, can we give up on our comfortable life and travel the world?
Unfortunately, we only know of one cruise line that has "adult only" ships, P&O Cruises based in the UK. They offer two ships, Adonia and Arcadia, that are exclusively for adults. However, that doesn't mean that you are limited to just that cruise line and those cruise ship itineraries to enjoy a "childfree" cruise vacation - with the right planning and a little luck you can sail a vast variety of ships (practically) "childfree".
We love to go on vacation. About ten years ago we decided that we wanted to take several small vacations annually, and one bigger vacation every 2-3 years. Why? We have a great time exploring new places and spending uninterrupted time together. The New York Times has reported that....
Work hard, play hard? Perhaps it should be work hard, rest hard. When you have a demanding career that takes a lot of time and energy, you either learn to take good breaks or you burn out. And we all...
We spent almost a year looking at real estate, and yet our biggest controversy wasn't deciding where to live. It was deciding what to do with our bookcases and our hefty library. You see, we were simplifying and downsizing, and I began to kick and scream at the thought of giving up my precious books.
We like a clean home. When the floor is clean, the granite countertops are sparkling under the pendant lamps, and the blankets are neatly folded on the bed, it makes us feel more relaxed. That being said, we don't particularly love to clean. So here are a few tricks...
There is nothing tackier than inviting friends over and having them get hit in the face with the smell of cat urine. Covering up the smell with air fresheners isn't much of an improvement, and the chemicals can be a problem. To remove the smell...
I've always admired people with homes that looked well... put together. As the kind of person who has to buy what the manikin is wearing to avoid fashion disaster, I never felt qualified to decorate my own home. Now...
About three years ago we surprised our friends and family by announcing that we were going to sell our large suburban house and move into a small apartment in the city. After eight years in the burbs we were tired of...
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